I hate to verbalize this because I really do love the work DD has done, but I'm beginning to feel unwelcome. Please let me know with a comment if there is anything I can do to help myself to fit in better.
Sorry =/! Just glancing at your profile you seem to do a lot of RPs (I've been wrong before =p). Those fall apart a lot (I've been wrong before xD), so don't feel bad if that's part of it!
I would like being asked at first. Something like, "Did you go pee-pee?" or "Does my baby boy have a wet diapee?" To which I would say "No.." and begin to shuffle my feet about guiltily. Then, I'd have the front of my diaper felt.
Welcome Mummy! I would love to have a mummy and I'm sure you'll have many more babies tell you the same. Good luck, and I hope you find what you're looking for!