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Being in a diaper, one that is eventually messy, is the easiest way to turn chores into play. I especially love doing the dishes while diapered up, and any kind of task that needs some squatting or bending over means maybe filling my diaper while doing the task too. For real, my biggest ABDL fantasy is just looking forward to the day that my living arrangements mean I can just make diaper time and weekly cleaning/spring cleaning/yardsale season all one and the same.

Well, the sad reality is your skin may just not be up to it. Depending on humidity and such there are times I just cannot wear a diaper or my groin will chafe no matter the lotioning or clothing. If you think you're stinky and you aren't spending hours at a time in a dirty diaper, then it's either in your head or you aren't actually showering thoroughly. When I first started messing, I would use a scented bodywash like Axe to clean up, because it just gave me a little reassurance that my nether regions didn't smell like poop at all after cleanup, but I agree antibacterial is the way to go as long as its something easy on the skin like Dettol.

I miss the green plastic Depends so much. I never understood why people hated on them because I've still yet to find a diaper that can compare. Depends were by far the most leak proof diaper I ever used, which means you could FILL them. Sure, others, especially ABDL brands, have more SAP and can actually absorb more liquid (assuming the liquid reaches all the SAP before a leak), but you definitely can't fill them with confidence to the same degree as those old Depends.

Wow, yeah that's way too much. I know some folks use this and if you're experienced with enemas and it works for you, cool stuff, but if you are inexperienced this is definitely overkill. I personally would never use anything other than a medical grade saline solution or plain water. Plain tap water is going to throw off your pH if you enema super regularly, but works fine for a once in a while thing. If you are really wanting a more adventurous solution, build up to it slowly. Now what your symptoms sound like to me is classic overhydration. Most folks don't even think about this as we are routinely told how important it is to stay hydrated, but rarely told we can hurt ourselves by being too hydrated. I've been enema-ing for over a decade now and I still can't take much more than a quart/litre without it getting too uncomfortable to still be enjoyable and I take that as a sign of my body's limits. When you stick stuff in your butt, it doesn't get filtered by your kidneys or liver, so it goes into your blood stream much faster than when you put it in your mouth. Next time try taking a lot less than the full 2 litres, especially if you are someone who is super good about staying hydrated normally. Maybe only fill it with 750 ml, which is still a good bit more than a fleet enema but well below the 2 litre mark. Don't get too adventurous until you have a gauge for what your body is telling you and what you can handle. Glycerin suppositories are by far the safest way to go about forcing a poop if your experiences with those were good enough and you honestly don't want to try enemas again (which given your experience would make sense, that honestly sounds like a truly terrifying evening) just stick with the glycerin. If you use them too regularly, you can get dependent on them, but you definitely will never have an experience like what you described.

Wipes, lots of them. Knowing where single stall/locking washrooms in your vicinity are helps. Really, thats all you can do, know where the good spots are to change and make sure you have a ton of wipes. Keeping extra plastic bags on hand can help too, maybe a roll of scented kitchen bin bags. Another option when the weather is good, if you have a vehicle with space, is going to a rest stop or carpool lot, parking in the very furthest spot, and just changing in the car.

If you have a local drug store with the hot water style enema bag, especially if they have a kit with a hose, this is an inexpensive but solid option to play around with that will still give you MUCH more enema than the syringes or Fleet enemas do. If you're willing to spend maybe four times the cash though, a steel enema can is the way to go https://www.purelifeenema.com/purelife-usa-made-medical-enema-kit-1-25-qt-304-stainless-steel. Mid enema you can add more water, it's easier to clean and dry, it's durable (I'll probably never have to buy another enema, just replace the hose a few times), and it isn't obvious what it is if you live with roomies or something.

Sounds so lovely, I've been fantasizing about road trips, camping, and other outdoor group activities a lot lately.

I would say "normally" maybe 30 minutes because life happens, you know. I live with other people so can't just make dinner or clean the living room while stinky stinky. When summer comes around or the times I've lived alone I'll usually sit for at least an hour. Finish the movie/season I'm watching before I change, or on lucky occasions just have to wait until my caregiver arrives to change me, which could be hours!

Just an hour ago. Even though I don't quite have as much privacy as I prefer for messing, I just had to take advantage. It was pretty glorious. Only regrets were not being able to sit in it for a few hours, due to aforementioned lack of privacy.

While I would never encourage holding it intentionally (it just becomes more difficult to pass and as Spanky said, the poop becomes harder itself), if you ever notice you have a day or two that you happen to not of gone #2, utilise it to your advantage. If I notice I haven't gone in a hot minute, obviously I'll start to eat some fiber and hydrate to get things moving, but I'll be sure to put on a diaper first because it's bound to be a huge fun mess. I was in that situation today and even though I don't quite have as much privacy as I prefer for messing, I just had to take advantage. It was pretty glorious.

I'm not, but before the pandemic I would road trip through there once in a while, will let you know if I ever do so again.

you can definitely find plenty of threads here discussing squishing or activities or routines that I would call playing with a poopy diaper. Personally I love the initial squish, I LOVVVVE dancing in a poopy diaper, but most of all if you ever have private access to a playground, using the slide in a diaper is just heavenly.

Sounds so fun!

Pooping when I had private access to a jungle gym. Just nothing like going down a slide in a poopy diaper.

All fours, always! I like pooping a lot of different ways, if I'm out and about doing the classic toddler squat works well, but if I'm able to get on all fours, that is hands down my favourite way. Especially if I do it face down, butt up, it lets the poop kinda wander forward in my diaper a little and I loooooove it!

MEEEEEEE! MY DIAPER IS SOOOOOO FULL OF POOP AND I CAN FEEL IT SHIFTING EVERY TIME I MOVE AND IT'S WONDERFUL!

Pooped my diaper for the first time in foreverrrrrr just ten minutes ago. I will never understand how poop on the bottom is so so comforting.

1. How much of your doodoo is done exclusively in diapers? Very little. Periods of 24/7 can be fun for sure, but I have no desire to go 24/7, so the vast majority of my pooping happens in the toilet. 2. Do you sit on your doodoo after pushing it out? ALWAYS! For a while too. If I had someone to change me I would probably stay in my mess until they decide to change me, but not having such a luxury, I generally just try to do it before my room starts to stink beyond what some ventilation and incense can fix. I like to watch cartoons and/or cuddle while in a poopy diaper. If I'm playing video games there's a strong sense of enjoyment I get from just continuing to play as I poop and then sit in it, just something extremely regressive and little mindset about pooping yourself rather than pause the game. 3. Does the cleanup bother you? Yes and no. The cleanup bothers me in my current housing situation because I have to be hyper aware and cautious to not leave things behind in the bathroom, cleanup thoroughly, try and be quick so I'm not hogging the bathroom, etc. etc. Buuuuuut, when I don't have to worry about other people needing to use the bathroom or about being naked and poopy for the journey from bedroom to bathroom, I'm not bothered at all. If I'm using wipes I can find it a little stressful if I'm super messy and wasting a lot of wipes, but that's the only real negative. And then of course, if you have someone to change your poopy butt and rub it down with wipes, cleanup is literally the most enjoyable experience to be had.

Just eat A LOT before you go to sleep, specifically food that you find goes through your system fast/well. Make sure you're well hydrated before sleep. If you're able, maybe change your sleep schedule for a day to coincide with when you usually have to poop - like if you normally poop around 9 AM, one morning just don't get out of bed to poop, then sleep in a little longer. I've honestly never forced the situation or had an "accident" in bed, so I can't really give you much advice beyond the standard 'pay attention to your body and your bowel movements, pay attention to what you eat, and find what works for you.'

They'd of probably been good to chat with LeaveIt2Me. While I don't subscribe to LDS theology, I have always found the missionaries to be pretty wonderful people to talk to.

I've woken up a few times to poop and then go back to sleep and honestly I wouldn't want to miss it, just like AmberStarfield said. There's something so immensely wonderful about waking up in the middle of the night in a sleepy daze, feeling the cramps, pushing out a big poopie to get rid of the cramps, and then settling back into sleep with a warm load against your butt!

This has to be the most common debate in this forum and it will literally never change. There will be people who are repulsed that anyone would actually mess in public, there are people who insist they can do so respectfully without overexposing strangers to their kink, and then there's the occasional entitled person who seems to think it's totally fine to force a minimum wage clerk or fellow bus passenger to put up with their smell. In my opinion, the world is full of bad smells that we don't get to choose exposure to. If you're not exposing someone to your kink by interacting with them or forcing them to put up with your smell for a prolonged period, I don't see anything wrong with messing outside of your home (if you live with family or roomies, messing out of the home is often the choice that exposes fewer people to your kink, actually). So if you go to a park and sit on the grass to read, and you happen to be in a messy diaper, and then at some point find a proper facility to change or head home, I think this is fine. I'd say the hard line for my personal opinion on the matter would be waiting in line at a store. If nature calls when you're browsing Costco, go ahead, mess, but you should head to the bathroom or home after that, and getting into a long lineup is a hard nope. The fact is there is valid medical reasons to wear a diaper and most people know and respect this. If you are not doing anything particularly creepy or ageplayish when you're messy in public, I don't think you've exposed anyone to your kink, because they should be assuming you have a reason to be in diapers and that it's none of their business what that reason is.

Hi? Was meeting up successful? Plans to do so again? I'm in the Grand Falls area.

Try just picking a different pooping position. My two favourites are lying on my stomach with my head propped up on my hands (slumber party watching TV style) and staying in that position for at least a few minutes after pooping, which gives it time to slide forward, and then also pooping while on all fours animal style. Also when you go for a sit, you can try getting onto your back before you squish your diaper and sitting up forward. Then everything will be squished to the sides and front rather than straight to your back. I also find pullups for whatever reason force things to the back moreso than briefs, so get some briefs with tapes if you don't already.

Just cleaning up thoroughly and not spending tooooooo much time sitting in it. The only times I've definitely had a linger were when I either leaked onto something or I sat for hours and hours in it. As soon as your diaper comes off, bag it and get it in a bin that is outside of your home immediately. I generally try to keep myself under a blanket/wrapped in a blanket if I'm messing at home, both in case I leak, but also because I find that there's less ambient smell in my room if that blanket then goes straight into the hamper or laundry. Ventilation is key. Opening a window on a breezy day will remove almost any stink that isn't embedded in carpets or something. I also find the highly scented body washes from deodorant companies (Axe, Old Spice, Lynx, etc.) do a mighty good job of masking any ambient smell on the body, though if you clean thoroughly there shouldn't be a noticeable smell once you're clothed anyway. I may be completely wrong and totally nose-blind, but I find unless you leak, there isn't good ventilation, or you keep your diaper indoors, that the smell generally disappears (or at most smells a little farty) after a couple hours. The reason children's nurseries/changing stations smell bad is a combo of keeping the diaper in an indoor bin and poor cleaning of changing surfaces. You leave a changing surface dirty for even an hour and you're never getting that smell out. If I'm worried about whether my place smells or not I often take a walk outside for a bit to refresh the nostrils.