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Yeah this is very hard to read. This is a completedstory?

Well done so far.

I have severe urinary and bowel incontinence and it was something I was born with due to my moms drug use into the last trimester and genetics . When I have a bowel movement in my diaper, they are consisten with incontinence of solid stool. The most rare of the levels of bowel incontinence.

probably a woman with a paid site looking for victims...

I have flown across country for conferences and the only trouble I have ever had was a young child seeing my diaper poking out the back and commenting on it and having my suitcase searched and having my diapers set beside my suitcase for every one to see. it was searched because the scan showed something that turned out to be nothing. I have flown 10 times and only 2 times did i have an issue and one was a kid. Just like when you are in public, most people arent going to notice. kids tend to notice more because they are always discovering things but the moral is, no one looks and no one cares. the same applies to airlines. wear what ever you think will make you comfortable and dont worry.

This thread has made me realize something fundamental. if you find yourself totally not interested or scared even of having sex with a woman but you actually crave and are excited for the same with men. you are gay. not bi sexual and not straight and not asexual. im still trying to accept that. the fact i enjoy the companionship with woman but not sex again is a typical gay identifier. I have identified as straight pretty much my whole life except for a year when i identified both as a bisexual man and gay. that was the funnest year but I stopped because i missed the companionship of woman and I felt the immense feeling of loss. mostly due to the fact I want more kids and because society does a good job of ingraining the norman rockwell white picket fence and all american dinner table in our brains. you do feel like you will miss out. i know many gay men have kids and amazing families but at the same time many dont. so i must get beyond all these feelings before I will truly be happy. thank you OP!

thank you dailydi(head honcho)

I have discoered over the years that waiting till you have been with the person for awhile and have had a chance to judge their personality and what it is they cant or cant handle, then telling them if you feel it will work out is the way to go. I agree that you need to be patient and dont rush to tell the person almost like you are excited to mention it. that will throw a person off. showing you are confident about your limitations will help down the road though. For me I have had 2 relationships break off after bringing it up and 4 that have continued. Of course those also eventually ended but that was more due to compaitibility issues and I ended them. Im 30 years old and Im a single dad, I also am a pretty confident person and model as part of my living. Additionally my childhood is full of sobs stories starting with growing up in foster care, being abused left and right and dealing with the incontinence mostly on my own besides my foster parents getting the diapers. I have some points going in my favor but there is some one out there for any one no matter what your personality is and how you look. I have had many relationships over the years even though Im both urinary and bowel incontinent.

i also have a second account that needs to be deleted: waslost1234abc is the account.

I have resent my verification email a couple times. I have comcast and have never had trouble getting emails. It does not go to spam or trash. Im not sure what to do at this point but it needs to be fixed. I have emailed the head honcho here and am still waiting for a response after two emails. Also curious as to why there is no about me section so as to have an actual profile.