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Kaliborio

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  1. A slight variation on the name of the Kaliber Lounge in Brunswick Street, Fortitude Valley, Brisbane.
  2. I had some infrequent, random, low-volume night-time wetting accidents in my early teens. Not enough that I thought of myself as a bedwetter — because I had other continence issues at the same time and I thought of them as part of that — but enough to be stressful. They sucked. I didn't have the kind of bedwetting that I do now — heavy, constant, every night — until adulthood. When it started it was scary and nerve-wracking because I was having some troubles with daytime wetting control, but I personally had made the choice to go back into diapers and felt like that choice had made my control worse and I was responsible for it. When the bedwetting started, I felt responsible for that, too. As it got heavier and more frequent, though, it got emotionally easier to deal with, partly because it became easier to justify taking the obvious precaution of simply wearing diapers every night. It also became easier because I realised that the fact that I was wetting the bed was a sign that it wasn't all my fault, any more, that by definition it could not be my fault because I wasn't choosing to wet the bed. Bedwetting probably made it easier to deal when my bowel control started falling apart. So, all in all, I feel fine.
  3. White. Partly nostalgia and partly because if I have a caregiver it's the easiest colour for visually interpreting how wet the diaper is.
  4. It's difficult to say simply because the period I am regressing to went so differently for me than it did for any of my peers. Short version — throughout our lives we will be categorised into age groups. The age group you're in affects how people treat you and what is expected of you. Age grouping is age-based but also act-based. The dividing line between "child" and "adult" is 18, for instance, but a 17-year-old who works full-time and lives independently would probably be considered pretty uncontroversially an "adult". However, an unemployed 25-year-old who lives with their parents might be considered an "overgrown child"(*): their actual age is acknowledged by the word "overgrown," but the suggestion is that for all practical intents and purposes they are a child. (* This is not supposed to be a slur on unemployed 25-year-olds who live with their parents. I think they're adults. I know what the modern world is like.) I would say the age groups go from granular to coarse as you get older. I would say early childhood (up to, let's say, 7 years old inclusive) can be subdivided into 3 age groups: "Baby" includes infants and toddlers, so 0, 1, or 2 years old; "Kindergartner" includes kids too old to be babies but who haven't started school yet, so 3, 4, or 5 years old; "Kid" is kids who have started school but are still very little, so 6 or 7 years old. The window during which a child is supposed to start toilet training falls after the middle age of the "Baby" group, and partly as a consequence of that the Baby/Kindergartner transition is strongly associated with having started toilet training, to the point that a child who hasn't started toilet training by the time they reach kindergarten age might be considered a "baby" for longer, or might be in a liminal state where they're treated in a way that has aspects of both. Similarly, the window during which a child is supposed to have finished toilet training is around the middle of the "Kindergartner" group, so a child who hasn't finished toilet training by the time they're 6 might be considered a "kindergartner" for longer. I didn't manage to start toilet training until I was about 7 and didn't manage to finish it until I was about 8. Based on my understanding of how other people grew up, I was definitely stuck in a liminal category — I wasn't completely babied but until I started school, and to an extent afterward, I was still being treated a lot more like an infant or toddler than almost anybody else with whom I've discussed it seems to have been. When I regress to babyhood I'm regressing to anywhere between birth and 5. Given all that I would say I am pretty authentic to my idea of babyhood but someone else might have a different idea of what it is.
  5. Didn't fantasise about it between toilet training and puberty. Didn't really fantasise about it after puberty, but my continence never got back to where it was immediately after toilet training, and I kind of felt like I'd be happier in diapers.
  6. Kaliborio

    Who Are You?

    I am a medically incontinent, bedwetting, AB/DL trans woman.
  7. Combination of the above. I actually don't mind using them myself because I don't really trust my tactile sense to tell me how wet I am, even after ten years. I also think they're useful when I have a caregiver. However, they're potentially uncomfortable if I'm pantsless around someone I don't know very well. I'm fine with being IC but I'm still oddly sensitive about people literally being able to see me wet myself in real time. It makes me feel infantilised in a way that isn't enjoyable.
  8. Depends on everything else. I'm generally fine unless someone saw me mess myself, in which case I'm uncomfortable, but that very rarely happens.
  9. Somewhere in the middle. I am not specifically trying to have my diaper uncovered, but generally prefer not to have too many layers on, so my average around-the-house wear is a onesie with a diaper underneath.
  10. I don't know if my AB/DL developed out of my IC, but I was definitely IC before I was AB/DL.
  11. Nightly, although not always to the same degree.
  12. I've believed for a while that losing your wetting control by not using it should mean that your messing control is weakened even if you intend to keep it and are actively using it. This is for two reasons: physiological — the pelvic floor muscles that provide bladder control and the ones that provide bowel control are right next to each other and are part of the same muscle group; functional — diapers and diapering accessories are harder to get out of than underwear in such a way that a close call is disproportionately likely to become an accident. It was my experience that this held true, and a couple of people I've talked to seem to confirm it. Did anyone here have a similar experience?
  13. It's Southern Hemisphere winter again and it's a cold winter for the first time in a while. I'd like to buy some new one-piece pyjamas (sleepers). Can anyone recommend a brand that they trust (and ideally one which they know fits well over heavier diapering)?
  14. I might be slightly in the "lemons to lemonade" camp; I initially saw myself as choosing to go into diapers because I was AB/DL, but over time, as I've unpacked things, I've realised that while I am very much AB/DL, I likely would have ended up in diapers by this point regardless, and was at least a little aware of that at the time. I will add, however — at the risk of sounding a little Portal 2 — that in the community of people who either want to be or are either 24/7, untrained, or both, there is an extraordinary degree of refusal to acknowledge the lemons, so to speak. 24/7ers and untrainees seem to have a propensity to have a very liberal definition of what counts as "continent". It's gotten to the point where someone simply saying they want to untrain makes me actively suspicious of how much continence they do, in fact, have.
  15. Hi folks, Hope you are well. Someone has just written me on my tumblr, asking why a specific variety of pacifiers, "German 'big nipple' pacifiers," "have cotton in the nipple". Attached is an image of the variety of pacifier they're referring to. It has a bunch of results on Google Image Search but I'm not sure if it's a single specific product line, a single brand, or what the story is. I've never owned one of these so I don't know if they have cotton in the nipple, and if so, why. Does anybody else know? Thanks so much in advance!
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