If it helps, I've been feeling this way too. I wish there was more of a sense of community among mommies and daddies, because I would just like to be able to make friends who, y'know, GET it. Even my husband can't really understand because my little side (whenever she does come out) is a child, not a baby. It is a different experience. I don't know anyone IRL who I can talk to about this- the concerns OR the joys!