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  1. How did you get rid of yours? I've left the jewelry out of mine for months and yet it's still very easy to insert 8 gauge into it. Seems the hole is permanent. Doesn't bother me, I like the flexibility to have it or not. I just wish I could find a PA chastity device that didn't hurt badly after 24 hours.
  2. I ended up getting a UTI from that exact design, but was probably because I did not sterilize it well enough. Also there's an air sputtering effect when you go while it's in which is kind of painful. But unlike any other ball capture device, this is the only one you won't be able to just slip right out of without it being so tight as to dangerously cut off your circulation. So it's worth considering, but probably only for people who have safely used catheters before first.
  3. Edronax sounds like a bad way to try for this. Only a 1-10% chance you'll get the side effect you want. You'll almost definitely get a lot more side effects you don't want. Adverse effects[edit] Very common (>10% incidence) adverse effects include insomnia, dizziness, dry mouth, constipation, nausea, and excessive sweating.[22] Common (1–10%) adverse effects include loss of appetite, agitation, anxiety, headache, restlessness, tingling sensations, distorted sense of taste, difficulty with seeing near or far (problems with accommodation), fast heart beat, heart palpitations, relaxing of blood vessels leading to low blood pressure, high blood pressure, vomiting, rash, sensation of incomplete bladder emptying, urinary tract infection, painful or difficult urination, urinary retention, erectile dysfunction, ejaculatory pain or delay, and chills.[22]
  4. It's a fun idea, but wearing a claw large enough for this purpose for more than an hour or two is going to start hurting really badly.
  5. Aww man, don't ruin Ferix's topic, please This is one of my favorite threads on the site. Even if I can't achieve his success, it's wonderful reading the progress of someone closing in on one of my biggest dreams in life
  6. I have a newer SDK 2.0 order, and they really are much improved over the old SDKs. But they are still not quite as nice as the Kiddos were. I'm not sure how to explain it, but the Kiddos felt less stiff, and seemed to be less prone to leaks. But I only had two samples instead of a case. Either way, I'm a fan, just wish they were cheaper. The ABU Simples cost less than the Kiddos, and are much thicker. You have to really like the printed design to pay more for less. I will probably buy a case anyway just for the variety. Also I agree, the new tapes are amazing! Both on the Kiddos and Little Pawz.
  7. If you ever go without, they may catch you in the lie. But if you're truly always 24/7, then it seems like a fine white lie to me to avoid explaining stuff that's really none of their business anyway. The alternative of telling them you're a DL seems like it'd cause more stress for everyone involved. I wouldn't openly tell someone unless they asked, and realistically, I've never once been confronted or asked about it, even the one time I leaked at work. I doubt most know, but I can't believe I've been 100% discreet for 16 years and counting. Especially considering the thickness of the ones I wear, and that I usually don't wear a onesie because it gets too hot.
  8. The trick to wetting in any position in bed with disposables for us guys is to always point down. On one's stomach, a leak is basically guaranteed if you are pointing up. And since it tends to move around on its own, especially in our sleep, I can get in a state where I'm not sure which way it's pointing when the urge hits, and that causes a hesitation as I check first that I feel isn't good for convincing the subconscious to just stay relaxed and let go. I almost never leak in any position with disposable when I'm pointing down. There are ways to keep it pointed down, but they're either uncomfy or potentially not super safe. But for me, cloth diapers are way too much work. I don't want to do laundry daily, or have the washer tied up with a pending load all week.
  9. Oh don't worry, it's not OTC so I'm not gonna try it. But I did read they were so safe that they were considering making them OTC, but of course urologists didn't want their patients to get away without having to pay them for visits so there was pushback. My understanding was they helped the muscles to relax, which was to treat BPH (prostate swelling). Unclear what if any effect it'd have if you didn't have BPH. Also wasn't thinking it was a miracle incontinence treatment, just something that'd make it a bit easier on one's untraining journey.. maybe. Diuretics have the same issue with lowering blood pressure, which is what causes the orthostatic hypotension. Easy enough to deal with that, just hold onto things if you stand up too fast and start to feel light headed. The potassium-sparing ones are even more dangerous. It's hard to avoid hyperkalemia when literally every edible food contains potassium. I came to the same conclusion. There's not really safe any OTC or herbal solution that will help with bedwetting. I do know of some unsafe things but I don't want to mention them here and would not attempt them personally. The alcohol thing didn't work for me either, but then I rarely ever drink anyway. Stents are dangerous too, as UTIs can potentially kill you too and the stents can migrate inside the bladder, which happened to one person here. I still am mostly convinced this is the reason I can't seem to achieve incontinence. Most of the people who have done so seem to have already had a history of bedwetting before, which I've never had an issue with even as a small child. I think I'm just out of luck on my goal, though I'll never stop trying. Don't mean to sidetrack the original poster's thread, sorry. The point of my post was just to try and get feedback from him if he finds any successful ways to bedwet once again, so I can try to copy those techniques
  10. Hiya, congrats on your progress! I hope you find success I'm really happy to see another who agrees with this being a form of BIID. The downside is it's not well understood, so people still try to talk us out of it all too often, which is akin to telling a depressed person to "just be happy". But I like that we're having a discussion about the mental health aspects of this, given we're unlikely to ever be the subject of any serious research into why we want this. So we have to figure ourselves out ^^; In my case, I've been aiming for incontinence for well over a decade. I seem to have hit a roadblock at being able to go easily in any position and to go frequently in small amounts. I believe the issue is that I don't and can't bedwet. I think that when I am sleeping, the bladder muscles constrict and stay that way until I wake up. And this is resetting all of the progress I make during the day of trying to stay relaxed. It allows those muscles to retain some tone. The usual tricks for it don't work for me (hypnosis, drinking lots before bed, having the mattress protector and getting used to leaks, etc) and stents are super scary. I tried with a simple sound, boiled it to sterilize, thoroughly cleaned hands, still got a UTI. Alpha blockers might be a safe, light nudge in the right direction as they will help relax the bladder muscles a bit, but aren't OTC yet so I can't try that. I am a light sleeper, but I am not going near sleep aids beyond melatonin, those aren't safe. I'd be very interested if you find a way to make progress on bedwetting Also, one thing I've heard some
  11. In general I like both, but would never wanna mess in public. But since this is on the incontinent-desires forum, I'd only like to be urinary incontinent. Bowels would be a lot harder to manage. But if there were a "both urinary and fecally incontinent" magic pill, and no way to get only the first effect, I'd do it.
  12. Those people are on the wrong forum, then. This is the incontinent-desires forum. Anyone who comes here and is offended
  13. I'll give my review. Bambino's quality has been dropping consistently, under their common strategy of making older lines thinner to sell newer, "thicker" premium products at higher prices. Their Teddies now only make it about 5-6 hours before needing a change. They sell for $1.58/each at case quantities, often a little cheaper with sales (ABU doesn't do sales) I would say the overall capacity has declined 30-40% since they were first introduced, and liquid tests on ADISC confirm the same.
  14. It doesn't work for all of us who have tried it. But overall it seems to have a decent chance of success, and is worth trying first. I think the key is being a bedwetter first, or even
  15. I keep a single pair of briefs that I'll wear when I go in to the doctors or hospital. That happens once every 1-5 years. Since I'm not actually incontinent, it's simply not worth explaining a fetish to a doctor. If I were to become incontinent, then I would accept that and wear even then. Would not be pleasant, but not the end the world either. As for concealment at all other times, plain white onesies work perfectly well for that
  16. People post many fantastical stories that never happened. I have a lot of trouble believing someone poured bleach into their bladder through a catheter without any evidence. Not the least because that wouldn't do anything to cause incontinence. Good way to cause death, though.
  17. I feel like no one is considering the points I've raised But I've already been having the same meal every day for over a dozen years. It did suck out most of the sexual aspects of diapers, but that's something I wanted as well. There are certainly people who have never gone 24/7, but warning them serves no purpose. They won't be intentionally able to become incontinent without first living it 24/7 for a year or more. They'll have plenty of time to realize the downsides on their own. And even then, it's very unlikely they will ever be able to become incontinent anyway. It's like if this were a "furries-support" forum, and people kept coming in and saying, "dude you don't
  18. I probably am, sorry. I spent years feeling outcast and alone just liking diapers. So finding forums that were okay with that really helped a lot. And so it really pains me when I see people on this forum, who've all been there, turn around and say the same kind of, "you're wrong for liking this, how could you like this?" points (not directed at you two, just in general), as if anyone even here even fully understands why they like diapers in the first place. But a part of me is also really curious. I obviously can't be truly incontinent, but if there is really a difference from simulating it 24/7 for over a decade, then I'd sure like to know what that difference is. So far, both of you had additional complications beyond urinary incontinence, so I think understandably it'd be less enjoyable. I'm sympathetic to both of you for the parts you dislike. The people who have been courageous enough to try stents don't seem to have changed their views much. I started with that and immediately got a UTI (-not a big deal, just don't like having to take antibiotics), so I'm very weary to keep at that route. At the end of the day there's not much point to warning people though. There's no magic pill or Craigslist 'home doctor' that's going to make someone incontinent overnight. A few lucky people can retrain themselves, but it takes years to do so. Years of living the life where at any point they can stop if it becomes unfun. And even then, those people can retrain themselves continent again. The only surefire means to incontinence are accidents (car crash, etc) that are more likely to kill you, and thus won't be things anyone is trying. So rest assured, it will remain just a fantasy for most of us =(
  19. But if I haven't used the option in 12 years, then what would the difference have been these past 12
  20. That is definitely going to result in you disliking your state a lot more than most people who fantasize about it. I'm sorry this happened to you. But good of you to accept what you can't change; no use fighitng such things. This is just not true. I've worn
  21. To me, the root of all the shame and resentment over the years (especially in my teenage years) has been the sexuality aspect of them. After wearing 24/7 for long enough, I was able to greatly suppress that aspect of them by making them routine, and I'm happy for that. So for me, I'd want to give up my libido completely. If I still liked diapers after that, then so be it. If not, then also so be it.
  22. Oh no, this doesn't cause incontinence at all. Stent is probably the wrong word, but it's also not really a sound. I guess you could call it a hollow sound maybe, although sounds are usually used as an aid in self pleasuring, which this device is designed to prevent, so... I don't know how to classify this thing
  23. I do have some pictures yes, please see attached With the older silicon tube that was 80mm long, I could do nothing but lie straight in bed or stand straight up. Any other movements would cause a good bit of pain. With this new one, I have to be careful sitting and I can't bend down to pick things up, but on the whole it's a lot more comfy. Hoping with time I'll get used to it and be able to move freely. Then when I get good at that, I'll start looking into making my own incontinence stent It's possible this type of stent can allow bacteria to travel up the tube. But with constant voiding it should flush anything that tries to travel up the tube, I would think. Even still, I don't think I'll risk longer than 24 hours at the very most without taking it out and boiling it again. About the iodine part, it seems to go against modern advice. If it's a "can't hurt" situation I don't mind trying it anyway. But what worries me is some sites say it can increase risk of UTI. http://www.atitesting.com/ati_next_gen/skillsmodules/content/urinary-catheter-care/equipment/cleaning-and-personal-hygiene.html "Do not use povidone-iodine, alcohol, or any other strong agent on the genital area. Although this practice was common in the past, it has been shown that it does not reduce infection and is more painful."
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