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  1. That's neat that you and your sister have the same "interests" for no other reason than it maked the world seem a lot smaller. How long have you guys known that the other one is into the same thing. Do you guys go to munches and parties together? Do you have any other sibs and do they know? Me, no one in family that I know is into diapers or ABDL stuff. However, I have one brother who is openly gay and another that is experimenting. I know it's not quite the same thing, but I doubt it's entirely a coincidence that multiple family members have interests outside the realm of normal. I do wonder what it would be like to have a kid who is an ABDL. Not that I want to take pleasure in that... I certainly would never impose my fetish. But I could save the kid a lot of heart ache by sharing my wisdom. On the other hand my wife is pretty vanilla an merely puts up with my fetish so I don't think she'd be too trilled
  2. Hi all, I am a budding amateur photographer and a fan of looking at pics of people in diapers. So, I think it's high time to combine these two hobbies and create my own pics. So I thought I'd pick people's brains on what makes a good shot. I already have some ideas based on pet peeves....For starters I plan on having good white balance and a clean, uncluttered background with good lighting. It also helps to have a well fitting diaper that is not overly soaked. What about clothes? I think sometimes good photography leaves things up to the viewer' imagination. What about feet? Socks? Props? I'm leaning towards making it an action shot (versus simply posing) Also some limitations... I'm not unattractive but am not muscular either. Plus I have thick chest and leg hair and don't plan to shave. So another reason for clothes. Also I don't want my face in the picture which adds a whole dimension of difficulty. I plan to shoot it myself but have a decent camera with a tripod so that shouldn't be too big of a deal. I'll keep everyone posted! Jessm5
  3. My first thought when reading the title was "ya good luck with that " but on thinking about it some more, I'm pretty sure my very first post some 15 years ago on DPF was the exact same thing. 15 years later I'm married....to a non-ABDL. Obviously if you can find a nice gal who enjoys diapers that's great. But just know that it's a bit more complicated than you would think at first.
  4. I often wear nothing over my diaper at home. However I have a puppy and live in an apartment complex so I have to go out. I have no problem wearing diapers in public, and when I take my puppy out I will throw on a pair of athletic shorts. Although they cover up everything you can still clearly hear the crinkling. Sometimes I leave the shorts on, but the crinkling never lets me forget I'm padded.
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    Hi all, Just wanted to (re)introduce myself.... It's been a very long time since I last posted (I looked it up and it was 2010). I haven't been on this site in a while and I am really glad to see that it is doing as good as ever. Anyways, that's it for now! Best wishes, Jessm5
  6. Hellloo fellow ABs And DLs! I guess it's been forever since I've been here. But I'm glad to see Daily Diapers is still kicking butt! Hope everyone is having fun! I see lots and lots of new folks have come on board. For the newbies, i have lots and lots of experience and love to share so please ask! Anyways I decided to come out of my cave because I am having a very good problem. See recently I got engaged. The bride2b is very lovely and smart and good looking. The only thing is that she is not into the diaper thing at all. Actually she is pretty vanilla all the way. No kinks as far as she knows. She doesn't get diapers and doesn't want to. Obviously I knee that when I proposed to her, but there's plenty of other qualities I adore in her. But here's the thing, although she is not into the diapers she is totally cool with me wearing as long as the diapers don't take over and she remains my first priority. I have worn tons of times around her and she doesn't mind. Heck she'll even give me l swats on my padded behind and play with the tapes. My problem is that even though I can wear openly i still feel a little awkward about wearing around her. She never stops me, but she will make comments like, "you're wearing again?" and when I say yes, she will just shrug. Also she never calls them diapers and she has diapered me in the past, but did it begrudgingly. I've told her flat out that diapers are a big part of me and that I'm worried she secretly doesn't want me wearing. She denies it says that she couldn't care less if I wear if it makes me happy. So should I be concerned and what do I do to make it less awkward? I think part of the issue is that i wear only on the weekends and random times throughout the week. I was thinking that if I wore much more frequently (like every night, which is what I used to do when I was single) I may make them feel more like part of the routine. But then again it may make things much worse if diapers are really a sore subject which is what I'm paranoid about. Any thoughts?
  7. Sounds like lots of people are doing swell. Keep up the good work y'all! Does anyone know where I can find any AB/DL podcasts. I think it would make my daily exercise more entertaining.
  8. Yikes! I didn't realize it was a link to a [That site] article! I clicked 'back' right away. IMO he's one of the people that doesn't give our community the bestest of reputations. Maybe he's changed his site since back in the day, but he used to have a diaper sighting section where people could post true stories of older children they saw wearing diapers. I found that kinda creepy so I avoid his page. All that aside, I've gotten to the point where I bedwet most nights when I'm wearing, and I never wet when I'm not wearing. And trust me, I didn't do any bodily harm, to accomplish it. The key is to get your subconscious mind to realize you're wearing a diaper, AND that it's normal to wet it. Actually, a lot of what I did was similar to what Riley described...which is funny because I never saw the video until just now. But basically I kicked things off by going a month with a modified 24/7 schedule (no number #2, no wearing at extreme socially inconvenient times). And like Riley mentioned, I made sure to go as soon as I felt the slightest urge, and at night if I woke up needing to go, I made sure to not change my position and to go right back to sleep. Drinking a glass of water or three right before bed also helped. But by and large the most important thing was that when I wear, I tell myself over and over again that there's no reason to hold it in. Hope that helps. Let us know your progress!
  9. I guess I would be in the 'old member group' although I joined in 2006 which is the cutoff for 'old'.... and actually I was on a hiatus during 2007... So would that make me a newer-old member, or an older-new member? EDIT: Ohh wait! I guess I joined in '05. Has it really been that long??
  10. I guess you know you're an AB/DL when you hear spring break, the first thing that comes to mind is, "quality time with diapers" and not going to beaches or traveling like most "normal" college kids do. Actually I have spring break next week and that's what I'm looking forward to as well! My only advice is to not over-indulge. That's happened to me a couple of times where during a break I'll wear 24/7 for like a week straight, but then kinda feel bored with diapers once the novelty has worn off. Just make sure you're not passing up on opportunities to hang out with friends or do some wacky stuff. Then again, there's nothing stopping you from hanging out with friends AND doing wacky stuff AND wearing diapers
  11. I'm wondering, for all those who've told their therapist, did you know what were you hoping to accomplish by telling your therapist? Were you looking for reasons why you like to wear? Or was it causing stress in some part of your life (like relationships) or was it mainly that you were looking for a sympathetic listener? (If you don't want to share, it understandable). I don't have a therapist, but I've been thinking about going for a couple of issues. Among the issues is striking a balance between AB/DL side and the rest of my life. But the thing is that I'm not sure what I want the therapist to do for me. I mean, I'm not looking for approval or anything, I'm not looking for a psychological explanation, and I doubt he/she would have a solution to my relationship conundrums. But on the other hand, it would be nice to talk about it with an unbiased, non-judging bystander.
  12. Perhaps... although that's more likely a reflection on how bad the other talk shows are.
  13. Ok, that was one of the most awkward clips I have EVER seen! It was so uncomfortable that I ended up fast forwarding through parts of it. I felt so bad for the DL lady on stage. I mean Tyra was really giving her the third degree and asking her personal questions, like if her husband changes her. You know, ntrader, I'm glad it went so well for you, but that clip has me terrified to tell my significant other.
  14. Haha... You know, where I *almost* run into problems is right after hanging out with my ab/dl friends. When we hang out we talk about diapers freely and opening like it ain't nothing, so it's easy to forget that it is something significant when I'm talking to my non-ab/dl friends right afterwards. Yup, lots and lots of close calls. It's to the point where I try to go straight home after ab/dl hangouts so I can 'reset' and re-acclimate to the real world.
  15. "Nothing human disgusts me unless it's unkind or violent" -Tennessee Williams
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