I also think its very sweet of your boyfriend to offer to help you with you diaper. My ex girlfriend would help me sometime get diapered if I asked her. She was really accepting and understanding of my urge incontinence and never made a big deal out of it. Every time I slept over at her dorm when I went to visit her she made sure I wore a diaper to bed. We are no longer together but we still talk every once in a while.