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lynniehyde

Member Since 18 Feb 2007
Offline Last Active Dec 27 2008 04:53 PM
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In Topic: Where To Buy Mary Janes

27 December 2008 - 02:05 PM

QUOTE (abycpl @ Oct 16 2008, 07:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am looking for a place to get nice Mary Janes like these http://sissyheaven.c...em.php?id=15437 but I dont want to order all the way from the UK. Is there anywhere stateside I can order from?

There is a place in Oregon where you can purchace Mary Janes, black patent, at a reasonable cost. They are: www.muffys.com/. I purchased two pair from them two years ago and have yet to put on the second pair. Very durable. A good value. They also sell saddle oxfords and have a wide variety.

Cuddles,
--heidilynn wink.gif

In Topic: Wetting Triggers?

26 December 2008 - 07:54 PM

QUOTE (dave_the_baby @ Dec 22 2008, 02:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey, guys.  Want to ask you all something.   happy.gif

It's well known that sticking your hand in warm water will cause you to pee- but I was wondering...
What other things seem to do it with you guys?  Doing something that makes you loose all control and just let it all out?

When you gotta go, you gotta go. wink.gif When you go 24/7 and stick to it, it's difficult to rationalize tearing off a perfectly good dry diaper because you have to pee. With cloth diapers, it's a bit easier because you can always re-pin them. But if total incontinence is what your looking for, my advice would be to go in your pants whenever and wherever you feel the urge. Eventually, your bladder and bowel muscles will weaken to the point where you will not be able to trust your body to control them and will be forced to wear diapers 24/7. Unless, you want to make a mess of your trousers, floor or workplace. huh.gif

Cuddles,
--heidilynn wink.gif

In Topic: Random Diaper Questions?

19 December 2008 - 08:22 AM

QUOTE (pampers08 @ Dec 18 2008, 11:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Gots a question and it might be a noob question and im sorry for any inconvenince.
But what would you tell your son/daughter about your ab/dl or incontence lifestyle
at what age would you decide to tell them?
and would you ever "flaunt" your want/need for diapers around your children
Is this acceptable?

When I had a family (son and wife), we kept it hidden and when we (my wife and I) were into it, my son stayed at his grandparents house. This became increasingly difficult as he grew older. My son found out about this during a messy divorce, when his mother brought him to the house and said, "There's your daddy! There's your daddy!" He was 12 yrs. old. I was dressed in a little girl's frock with my diapers and rubber panties poking out underneath the hem of the dress.

I don't know if this was "flaunting it", but he has handled it well. He is getting married in a few weeks and plans to visit me in Phoenix on their honeymoon. He assures me his bride to be knows about me and my lifestyle, seen my website and all and has no problem with it. We'll see.

I have had relationships with friends who've had children and I've been exposed to them as a big baby girl at parties and so forth. The kids seem to love it. No problemos. I think it all depends on the adults around who can influence the kids positively or negatively. Acceptible? Depends. lol. (So, what's your problem?)

Cuddles,
--heidilynn wink.gif

In Topic: Dealing With Disappointment

16 December 2008 - 02:52 AM

QUOTE (underwhere @ Dec 16 2008, 01:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The diapers really isn't the problem for me, but it IS likely that the lack of social relationships I have in my life is a contributing factor.  That's a whole separate issue regarding trust and safety and all of that good stuff that I tangle with every day while trying to do whatever I can to "protect myself from harm".  I feel like I constantly live a little "on edge" because of my disability issues.  Failing to do so would likely be foolish for me as I'd be a pretty good "sitting duck" for somebody looking for somebody else to take advantage of.

At the same time, though, I'd like to find some way to break through this block I seem to have.  I don't like feeling so disappointed with so many different things, most of them being outside of my control.

"Never no worry", as one of my taekwondo masters used to tell me. You will find friends, if you're willing to seek them out or let them find you. Lonely can be endured. But, it's not forever. As far as being a "sitting duck"? I doubt that's the case. You seem far too intelligent to let that happen. Trust is important in any relationship. But, don't let that scare you off from exploring. You'll never know what you might find.

Cuddles,
--heidilynn wink.gif



In Topic: Dealing With Disappointment

16 December 2008 - 02:14 AM

QUOTE (underwhere @ Dec 16 2008, 12:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I had a lot to think about today.  I've had a lot to think about a lot lately.  

I put this blog entry together just now, and I know that blogs are not typically well read around here, but I am very interested in seeking feedback from anybody willing to give me some.  

In addition to dealing with the varieties of disappointment I've had, I'm currently in the process of trying to figure out what the heck to do with myself.  I don't really feel like I am making substantive progress with my life right now.  I feel like there is a lot more holding me back than pushing me forward, and I'm really struggling with trying to find a way to allow me to be more productive and feel more positively about myself.  I know that I have a lot of positive qualities, one of which I am trying to put to good use by launching a business (even though now is probably not a good time to do that) but I still don't FEEL positively about myself or my situation.

On some level, I know this is Depression talking to me, but that doesn't make it any easier to deal with.  

If any of you have experienced this, how have you dealt with disappointments and/or lack of self-confidence?  What has been helpful to you?

It isn't the diapers holding you back. It's your own perception of how others feel about your desires. When you can feel comfortable about letting a select few know about your feelings, it will become easier and more freeing for you to be comfortable in your own skin. Depression is a hard thing to deal with. But if wearing diapers makes you happy, where's the harm? You may find that if you let others know about the way you are, you will build a whole new network of friends, who have no problem with it and even embrace you for being yourself.

Been there, done that.

Cuddles,
--heidilynn wink.gif